That is the dumbest reason I have ever heard not to do something for someone. How would he feel id he asked em to do something that meant a lot to him and I said no because "He would be expecting it" or "He asked for it" yadda, yadda, yadda.
I am not a child that needs taught a lesson. I am his wife, I clean his house, cook his meals, care for his kids and all I wanted were flowers to just acknowledge that he cared about all that. I know he appreciates the things I do but I also know he takes it for granted pretty often. If flowers were the one thing I needed to feel better then whey not just go grab me some daisy's when I first mentioned it. I can't help but feel he turned this into a power struggle that in his mind he won. In my mind I am a little hurt.
Well, here are the flowers. They are pretty and nice but they just don't mean as much now as they could have weeks ago. But I can't say that to him, lord only know if I would ever see some again.
He grabbed them on the way home and I cut and put them in a vase myself.
It's not like they cost much (under $10) so why couldn't he have just done this before?
And for those of you who may be wondering if he finally got some lovin... He did get some lovin prior to me getting the flowers. I figured why am I punishing myself?