Go Gay For

For those of you not familiar with the term "Go Gay For" I'll explain it. It's a label a straight person would apply to someone of the same sex that is so smokin' hot that they would actually turn gay for the chance to hook up with that person.

I don't know how my hubby and I got onto the subject but through the course of a conversation I somehow said that I don't think he is on any ones "go gay for" list. He instantly looks shocked and hurt (in a playful way).

"I can't believe you don't think anyone one would go gay for me," he says. I explain that it's not that I don't think a gay man wouldn't find him attractive. We actually had a gay friend who totally dug him. It's just that I don't think a straight guy would ever take a look at James and say "Wow, that guy makes me wanna turn gay just to be with him". This isn't a bad thing. Hell, I don't think anyone would ever turn gay just to hook up with me either.

I have to find the irony in men. Many men unnecessarily worry that hanging around a gay guy or being near one could make the gay male in question go crazy with lust for them. Believe it or not few guys are so hot that a homosexual male could not be able to control his urges around them. Luckily James isn't one of these guys. But the fact that he would even jokingly take offense at the thought that a guy wouldn't turn homosexual for him makes me laugh.

But even though I don't think a guy would ever go gay for him, I do believe a lesbian would go straight for him. After all, I did.... LOL.